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生活中的5个球* }* l$ Q' N# Y: Q8 `4 _
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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. X h" X! |3 P9 e* l% G你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。7 N4 c% ~, z( ]' u$ [: ?% v
" x/ p* p+ c; i) x7 t! p, k怎样才能做好?2 z9 O! i' g/ Y: Z) ?, N* Y" t4 _
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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5 `9 |: f. s: |( Z2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。" Y5 U6 y+ k& e: D8 A
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。/ k$ o2 y6 [3 B, F
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。& a# }" T6 H1 T# l8 G+ Z
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。. ~( b' e. N& g/ f( r4 d
% C* S) x; f6 s3 r: u7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 + l- Q$ P" x4 [2 [7 y7 X
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。5 _9 l$ x. l8 e% ~
8 @, n5 l3 ~! q9 w9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。6 i$ y' l4 v- c2 e
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。" s) ^) ?; W* D1 M) b/ V0 Z+ c" i
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原文:7 ?5 R1 G0 R; H/ A7 Y' V% _
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This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.3 q0 H- _2 `, N9 @- `& o- @
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:" N7 d+ M/ T! L9 e; N X$ q
' M6 m- k2 R& ?Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.. m/ _- g) o* Z+ ~4 Q0 b" P x
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.6 v1 W( I1 H& Y+ J/ @9 s7 ^3 @5 T
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?6 i" c6 D) q3 r# T& L
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.! ^# @1 Q) R( J9 v, K4 v, D+ d
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless./ D( N9 S# f2 z8 B+ |' B
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.5 @& N6 C! X" G7 i1 {$ P
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.. `9 M+ p) P& S6 v6 `9 X/ J+ O1 b% i4 K
- e' [4 T2 `; w- Z6 A7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.9 W9 W' }5 a' `" g
% [* s6 z u( [& c, o8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.% y) |# o2 M1 U. n3 f
" Y# V2 q/ [" e% }2 P7 a9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.7 u% F; \7 l. G: _3 k. E
/ U1 N3 q* {$ H" L: ~10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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; X( m0 l) ^; P/ V9 d) V11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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# Z& k2 o" q+ d/ \& a) c12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.6 S( h% ^4 b% L$ f1 s
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