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生活中的5个球! [$ J2 E0 S* o1 v9 S$ [, n
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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; _/ W6 t. r7 _% o9 u设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。! l3 k+ f; ^" ?- d9 n z
# o* w& p. Y z$ x+ v你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。; S3 i0 I* G6 S: _7 v
( m. _5 ~6 A) ]$ ^0 g9 o% Q你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?4 ^. h# |9 I. n1 P
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。9 T5 u. U' |* I) d2 I z$ \; ?6 n
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。1 I" C; M8 n* v1 d
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。0 J8 ]5 u. @; [2 U3 `3 X k
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。4 V" t2 j+ R3 X- z8 P$ I
: K4 E* m2 f$ P6 ~: D6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。3 `8 g5 y( G8 U
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 # J' l2 G& K5 P& R
( j) a! [1 i+ U* k4 j0 T: o8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。& g3 x" Y) w. r0 I0 i, X+ v) F
; [( v5 X$ C4 @9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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7 Q! ?* g/ f1 t: r6 r12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:5 Q, \# t- m I
% H% q2 U H9 P, e2 LFive Balls Of Life
4 D+ j$ c, e: S5 u3 u& J2 h; zThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
$ K" E4 @6 z3 M1 {: s5 TIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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& d7 ?$ W" l% J& R( _5 NImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air." v7 u) V1 z" [; A* K, n+ n( U
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.0 w. j5 D+ v5 t: j! n
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.& m2 ]$ a0 A% b
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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! q, k2 t6 K9 H" `( X1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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N# o6 h. Q& g# w. x7 J4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.1 s8 s7 A! c9 o- I m
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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& f0 w5 ~# O; k+ K# u- L6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.- \& D% I6 Q3 w$ g
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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$ m6 e% D% e9 j8 s! K) D8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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" ^' h4 I2 i) V9 V# X' m5 ~- V0 d2 m9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.# Z- M3 U% P- x5 V. f7 ]5 n, H
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. D# g- ^, ~* y# V. p3 c/ K
: | b0 M1 `* I' @6 G% ?: k12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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